On August 21st of this year I turned 35 and realized that it was the best birthday of my life. I expressed that to someone at work and they asked me what I got. I told them that for the first time in my life:

I am not seeking satisfaction in meeting the unrealistic expectations of others.

I have forgiven everyone that has done me wrong which means that I no longer carry the burden of anger disappointment and resentment.

I have the answers to every "why God" question that caused me to doubt the relevance of my existence.

My wife and I love each other deeply and we have finally figured out how to maintain that love for the rest of our lifetime.

When I was a kid my mother taught us to say this simple prayer before each meal..."The Lord is my shepherd, I shall not want". I did not fully understand that scripture until my co-worker asked the question.

I let him know that I received a reminder that I have everything that I could ever want.... the satisfaction and fulfillment that comes from being loved by God.

It took me 35 years but I realize that I have "got" a peace that money can’t buy. I have a clear sense of purpose and calling and I intend to spend the rest of my life helping others obtain the treasure that I have found. 


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